Remembering MARQUEZ!

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Apart from the magical realism presented by Marquez, I always keep in my heart some of his touching words that remind me of all the love one could ever have. I often break down to tears just with the memory of them…this may sound weird at least to some one out there…But it’s a truth…I am happy that I am NOT a giddy and giggly type of person/reader, but a sentimental and hopelessly romantic one who has both feet firmly fixed on to the earth…I fly…only if I decide to….

It’s true that I am not a voracious reader. Still, most of us tend to love writers as we fall in love with their characters, actually with the souls of those characters. Your guess (if at all you are guessing) is right, like many, I use to have nonfictional feelings towards fictional characters.

Marquez never dies!

Think of love as a state of grace; not the means to anything but the alpha and omega, an end in itself.

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“If I knew that today would be the last time I’d see you, I would hug you tight and pray the Lord be the keeper of your soul. If I knew that this would be the last time you pass through this door, I’d embrace you, kiss you, and call you back for one more. If I knew that this would be the last time I would hear your voice, I’d take hold of each word to be able to hear it over and over. If I knew this is the last time I see you, I’d tell you I love you, and would not just assume foolishly you know it already.”

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He recognized her despite the uproar, through his tears of unrepeatable sorrow at dying without her, and he looked at her for the last and final time with eyes more luminous, more grief-stricken, more grateful than she had ever seen them in half a century of a shared life, and he managed to say to her with his last breath: ‘Only God knows how much I loved you’.

What matters in life is not what happens to you but what you remember and how you remember it.

RIP MÁRQUEZ!

Closure

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The rain outside has stopped, but not the one inside me.

I have lost my identity, who was I?

I am a doctor, an eye specialist for the public. Yes I am!

I am the mother of my two kids, a 25 year daughter and 21-year-old son. Yes I am !

I am the wife of a famous cardiologist, the woman behind his success and his strongest support and love, as he often  tells his friends. Am I? I was doubtful.

I wasn’t even a bit doubtful about it, until today.

A month back my husband had met with a terrible accident. He had lost his memory. A heart-broken me prayed for him,  cared him like a babe, spoke to him, smiled to him and tried my best to bring him back some memory, but he stared me like we had never met.

I used to sit near the window outside his critical care unit, look outside and cry till my eyes had no more tears. My mind had cried a never-ending cry since that wretched day!

Four days back my beloved husband suddenly spoke a word, which made us happy and confused at the same time.  A word that eventually led me to think about my identity.

He called out  “Sara…”.  All of us were happy because he spelled a word . The family was essentially  because I was not Sara and we never knew any Sara.

Since then he repeatedly called out the name. When I went near he drove me away and stubbornly asked for Sara.

I had been with him for more than thirty years, right from his college. Ours was a sweet love marriage. He was a great son, a faithful husband and a loving dad even when he was leading a busy life. But none could figure out who Sara was.

With passing time he became more adamant without seeing Sara. When he saw me he became violent. His doctor advised me not to go near him. Thus this imaginary person could separate me and my kids from my husband. He hated to see us. Too much for my fragile heart to bear!

My husband became weak day by day, but he called out the name in a feeble voice. His body showed less and less response to the medicines and food ; hope was diminishing.

Today  his  doctor told me that he should have a visitor and that might help. Some other gifted hands in the medical field, I thought. But my disorientation reached its  highest when he told me that the visitor was my husband’s patient and her name was Sara.

The first question in my mind was invariably “who was she to him?” which  I couldn’t ask any one; which none could have answered.

But the report I got from the doctor after one hour of her visit was quite enough.

The visitor tried her best to communicate with him and he did respond well. He identified her, called her name, smiled at her and hugged her. He tried to speak though he couldn’t.  He was excited way too much that his weak body couldn’t bear it. He took his last breath holding her hands in his.

I was floored. The reality that he has left this world was a blow. Within that loss there was a pain of  infidelity, which I never knew, which he never showed. More than his departure, I couldn’t come in terms with a person who existed only in my imagination and the fact that she meant so much to my husband than me or our kids or the family.

I didn’t cry, I wished to be alone. I climbed the steps hoping to find a place where I could find some solace. Frankly, being a doctor who knew what he had undergone, I was bold enough to face a bad news. But what happened was a bit much.

Climbing each step I re winded  in my mind of all our days together, our college days, our wedding, our  kids, our trips; all the love and joy we had shared.

When did he change?Why didn’t I notice? I couldn’t, for it was invisible, hidden and yet stronger.

I reached the top open space. It was all damp after the heavy rain. The sky was dark and i could see a bright light  a midst the dark grey clouds, some white birds hastily flew across it.

What time it was? At what time he had left?

Wasn’t he an open book to me ? But even open books can have earmarked corners!

His doctor was right; the meeting helped, he died happily seeing her. Hers was the last voice he heard, hers was the last face he saw, hers was the last touch he had, he didn’t lose his grip over her memory even when everything went blank, doesn’t that tell something about their bond? Yes, it does.

Living with the memory of his secret life or secret love would be an unjust punishment for me.

It seemed there was nothing to block a ‘purposeful accident’, no walls, no parapet.

And from there I flew, with a mind full of unanswered questions, to the next world.

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Forever…

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If you love someone, put their name in a circle, instead of a heart, because hearts can break, but circles go on forever

~ Unknown

Love knows no age…

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“We are idiots. I am an idiot.
Our hearts wander where they shouldn’t.
Infatuations make it difficult to realize the ins and outs of life.
It easily forgets the limits, flies like a butterfly which has lost all its senses and directions.
That is what I feel now, and it is….euphoric!”

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“It was my fault , only my fault, that I, an aged man fell in love with a much younger you, Mitha. I confess my love to you here,on these papers. My love will last as long as these papers are intact.
I will keep this to myself, I don’t want you to know about it .
Let it get buried where it was born.
I cherish this wonderful sentiment, I feel a romantic as well as spiritual connection with you.
I understand it is more than a mere infatuation. It is something real and pure.
But still, I agree, this is inexplicable,incomprehensible, inexcusable, irrevocable; all at the same time.”

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“When I entered this old library years ago I never had expected that such a gust of heavenly joy would make entrance to my heart and soul apart from books.There are days I come here just to see you reading your favorite book sitting at your favorite spot near the window. Beautiful, smart and intelligent girl with a unique individuality, you are special Mitha.”

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“The corridors are old but the sunshine is new,
Day or night your figure is knocking my eyelids,
My life is changing bit by bit…”

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“The windows of dreams take away my sleep.
My life suddenly seems fresh and new.
I know it is because of you
Let me hide this treasure deep in my heart forever…….”

“Son!”
The woman spoke in a grieving voice.
“They were all dad’s documents. As you know, he was prompt and systematic on all matters until he left us……forever !”
She wept silently and left.

The son once again looked at the neat, hand written papers, his father had kept safely among the tax documents and other statements.

He thought for a moment and then took them to the shredder.
The terrible voice from the shredder invited the woman’s attention.

She looked at the shredder with a questioning expression on her face.

The son told, ” It’s nothing mom, some old bills and account statements, really useless…:”

“Are you sure, son?”

“Yes mom, very…”

“No matter alive or dead, we don’t stop loving people, I love him… forever !”
He wondered why she spoke that way.

With a chaotic heart he entered the living room.
His little daughter came with her book and asked him to read to her.

He read:

“Alice : How long is forever ?
White Rabbit : Sometimes, just one second.”

His heart sunk into an emptiness.

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